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[i][b]1. One-sided interactions[/b][/i]. You're not supposed to be the only one putting effort into the link. They're all distracted. All has other roles. But that's not an excuse that's good enough to ignore you. If they are not able to give you enough attention, anyone shouldn't be in a relationship with you. They should devote as much time to you as you have given them. If you're the only one that puts the effort in, then they're the only one who gets the perks, and that's not right for you.

[i][b]2. Relationships, nearly[/b][/i]. There must be a reason they are hesitating if someone refuses to place a mark on your relationship. You're ready to take the next step, so why don't they have the same amount of enthusiasm for you? You should hold out for someone who is honored to tell the world about you, not someone who, when it comes to committing to you, hides you away and procrastinates. You deserve better than someone who's not even willing to call you a human.

[i][b]3. Toxic interactions[/b][/i]. When you deal with someone who is toxic, you will never win. They're going to find a way for you to turn any claim around. If you didn't really do anything wrong, they'll make you feel bad. They will make you feel like crap every chance they get, even though they are the issue in the relationship. They're never going to admit their own faults because they're going to be too busy dwelling on yours.

[i][b]4. Relationships for long-distance[/b][/i]. Although long-term relationships are not intended to end in tragedy, they are still exhausting. Your heart is harsh on them. There's always a computer in the way, rather than meeting your partner in person and spending quality time together. You're never as close as you'd like to be. You still count down to a future where instead of loving the moment, you're together. There are plenty of couples who can make this arrangement work, but it can sap even the happiest of them.

[i][b]5. Relationships On-and-Off[/b][/i]. Typically, breaking up with someone is a warning that you're incompatible. It is a warning that you need to move on. But it's tough to know what is best for your heart when you keep getting back together with someone you thought was out of your life. There are a lot of things you need to sort through while you're together. And it's tough to move on when you split up again, because you're convinced that you would eventually end up together again.

[i][b]6. Untrustworthy experiences[/b][/i]. It's hard to be in a successful relationship with them if you lose faith in someone. You will still worry about them betraying you anew. You will still be questioning if it was a mistake to stay with them. It's always going to be difficult for you to trust the words that come out of your mouth, because you know they've lied to you in the past. They're capable of putting you through hell, you know. You know, really, they don't mean it when they say they're never going to hurt you because they already have it.
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1. One-sided interactions. You're not supposed to be the only one putting effort into the link. They're all distracted. All has other roles. But that's not an excuse that's good enough to ignore you. If they are not able to give you enough attention, anyone shouldn't be in a relationship with you. They should devote as much time to you as you have given them. If you're the only one that puts the effort in, then they're the only one who gets the perks, and that's not right for you.

2. Relationships, nearly. There must be a reason they are hesitating if someone refuses to place a mark on your relationship. You're ready to take the next step, so why don't they have the same amount of enthusiasm for you? You should hold out for someone who is honored to tell the world about you, not someone who, when it comes to committing to you, hides you away and procrastinates. You deserve better than someone who's not even willing to call you a human.

3. Toxic interactions. When you deal with someone who is toxic, you will never win. They're going to find a way for you to turn any claim around. If you didn't really do anything wrong, they'll make you feel bad. They will make you feel like crap every chance they get, even though they are the issue in the relationship. They're never going to admit their own faults because they're going to be too busy dwelling on yours.

4. Relationships for long-distance. Although long-term relationships are not intended to end in tragedy, they are still exhausting. Your heart is harsh on them. There's always a computer in the way, rather than meeting your partner in person and spending quality time together. You're never as close as you'd like to be. You still count down to a future where instead of loving the moment, you're together. There are plenty of couples who can make this arrangement work, but it can sap even the happiest of them.

5. Relationships On-and-Off. Typically, breaking up with someone is a warning that you're incompatible. It is a warning that you need to move on. But it's tough to know what is best for your heart when you keep getting back together with someone you thought was out of your life. There are a lot of things you need to sort through while you're together. And it's tough to move on when you split up again, because you're convinced that you would eventually end up together again.

6. Untrustworthy experiences. It's hard to be in a successful relationship with them if you lose faith in someone. You will still worry about them betraying you anew. You will still be questioning if it was a mistake to stay with them. It's always going to be difficult for you to trust the words that come out of your mouth, because you know they've lied to you in the past. They're capable of putting you through hell, you know. You know, really, they don't mean it when they say they're never going to hurt you because they already have it.

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